What I have learned in my days is that your action can cause more damages than words can. Your actions show what type of person you are to theirs around you. This will determined what type of men/women you are to the people around you or your friends. Its funny when you lose people or friends because of your action you feel like your are a bad person, but that’s doesn’t make you a bad person at all. It’s just you made poor choices as a person. But what makes men/women is if you realize and learn from your mistakes. I know this because I have lost many friends in my days and I have done some poor choice as well because of how I acted and my actions. But I have learned from them and made me smarter, wiser, and a better men. No one is perfect everyone makes mistakes one time or another. Making mistakes if how you learn to be a better person in life.